Eric Wolf

multiple myeloma coach since 2023

Initially, I attributed my pain and fatigue to the cumulative effects of 28 years of exercise, field work, and combat tours as a U.S. Marine. Yet, as my symptoms grew worse–debilitating back pain, a bout of pneumonia, and severe flu-like symptoms–my tough-it-out attitude gave way. An emergency room x-ray showed a collapsed T-12 vertebra. I'd been working a diplomatic assignment at the US Embassy in Mexico City. I was immediately medevaced to the Naval Hospital in San Diego. It was there, in February of 2012, at the age of 46, that I was diagnosed with multiple myeloma. I never returned to Mexico and my life changed forever! After successful surgery to stabilize my spine, followed by months of physical rehabilitation, it was time to tackle multiple myeloma. Fortunately, I had a good healthcare team and they recommended the standard approach at the time: autologous stem cell transplant (ASCT) followed by consolidation therapy. I struggled over the course of the next six years to keep my disease in check. I was on and off nearly every combination of proteasome inhibitor (PI) and immunomodulatory (IMiD) drug; multiple lines of therapy. Even two clinical trials. By mid 2018 I was very sick. Three times a week, I was in the cancer center, often receiving blood or plasma to keep me alive. Fortunately, I was seeing a myeloma specialist and going to a research hospital. We decided that the best approach was another transplant even though my first one never put me into remission. Using stem cells collected back in 2012, I went in for a second ASCT in Nov 2018. I am overjoyed to report that this treatment, with maintenance therapy including a monoclonal antibody, has kept driven me deeper and deeper into remission over time; at of June 2023, after 11 years, I'm Minimal Residual Disease Negative (MRD-)! In April of 2014, I retired from the Marines, and the following month my youngest son graduated from college. The month following his graduation, we started a thru-hike of the Appalachian Trail, from Maine to Georgia, about 2,200 miles. We hiked for five months. Who would have thought that as a myeloma survivor, I could through hike the AT!!? I don't have the strength and stamina to hike and backpack anymore, so I've taken up motorcycle touring and camping. And if I'm being honest, there are days when I struggle with identity: who am I now that I'm not the active, fit, Marine anymore? My wife and I have been married for 38 years and have four adult children and one grandchild, a seven year-old girl. My passion though, is peer mentoring myeloma patients; praying with them, sharing my experiences, and helping them navigate cancer. I have been blessed with great support over the years from my church, my family, my healthcare team, and my myeloma support group. I just hope to give a little back. This disease is tough, and riddled with decision points. There are no clear answers but what we do know is that we can live long and full lives. Myeloma does not define who we are!

Annette Brewer

multiple myeloma coach since 2023

I am a wife and mother of two amazing adult children. I love reading, learning new things, dancing in my living room, and being with my family. I was diagnosed with MGUS in January 2021 and Smoldering Multiple Myeloma in September 2021 after my Bone Marrow Biopsy. The transition from MGUS to SMM diagnosis was overwhelming and I found myself on an emotional roller coaster with my stress levels rising and falling in sync with my Hematology/Oncology appointments. Thus far, my myeloma markers have remained relatively stable and I’ve been able to approach my appointments with less stress and more optimism. As I learn to navigate the challenges of this diagnosis, I hope to share my insights with others. I am an avid learner by nature so when I found HealthTree.org, I dove into the University to learn as much as possible about this disease. I want to be an informed patient so that I can partner with my healthcare team as well as advocate for myself. I am hopeful that by arming myself with knowledge and collaborating with my healthcare team I can have the best outcomes.

Laraine Jones

multiple myeloma coach since 2022

I was diagnosed in June 2011. This diagnosis came after an inquiry by me with my primary care doctor about the fact that I noticed that I was losing weight. My weight loss was noticeably significant. Upon running a bunch of labs, my primary care doctor suspected that I might have MM because of the fact that I was very anemic and I had an elevated M-protein spike. My PCP referred me to a hematologist. Upon meeting with the hematologist, additional tests were done, including a bone marrow biopsy that resulted in a positive MM diagnosis. Of course I was initially in disbelieve of the diagnosis. I kept thinking to myself that perhaps the doctor made a mistake. But eventually I realized that there was noting for me to do but to accept my new reality. This began for me a journey to learn all that I could possibly learn about MM by reading the educational materials published by the MMRF, LLS and the IMF, as well as reading books written by my fellow MM warriors such as the late Pat Killingsworth. I also joined a number of Facebook MM Support groups. I began my first line of RVD therapy in July 2011. This was followed by a SCT in November 2011. Post my SCT, I began Revlimid maintenance in June 2012 and remained on this therapy until June 2016, when I relapsed due to a gradual uptick in my M-protein. I eventually began a new therapy which included Daratumumab + Pomalyst + Dexamethasone. I have been on this therapy since April 2017 and continue to have a very good response to my treatment. I now live a 'new normal' active life able to enjoy activities such as photography, golf, outdoor and indoor biking, swimming, walking as well as being active volunteering with my church and sorority. I have learned so much because of this journey and, needless to say, I now have a far greater appreciation for this thing called life!