Carrying the Weight: Navigating Cancer Without the Support You Expected
A cancer diagnosis not only affects the body. It can shift relationships in unexpected ways. This session will explore what it means to move through treatment and survivorship when support feels limited or absent. We will talk honestly about emotional trauma, caregiving gaps, and the reality of feeling alone, while offering practical ways to cope and move forward with strength and clarity.
Valarie introduces the agenda of the event and our featured speaker Carl Butler
Carl talks about survivorship when support feels limited
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Valarie Traynham
Valarie embarked on her myeloma journey back in 2015, and ever since she's been on a mission. As a resilient myeloma thriver, her passion lies in not just navigating her own path but also in illuminating the journey for others. With a steadfast commitment to understanding the intricacies of the disease, she champions education, shedding light on health inequities that often lurk in the shadows. Driven by a profound belief in fairness, Valarie tirelessly advocates for equitable access to top-tier healthcare, clinical trials, and tailored treatments. Her journey as a beacon of knowledge and support began when she assumed the role of a support group leader. Today, she continues to extend her hand as a myeloma coach, mentor angel, and the guiding force behind the Black Myeloma Health Community. Valarie's voice echoes far and wide as she fearlessly confronts the disparities faced by myeloma patients. Through collaborative efforts with healthcare providers, she strives to forge pathways to solutions, ensuring that every individual receives the care they deserve. Join Valarie on her journey of empowerment and advocacy as she lights the way toward a brighter, more equitable future in myeloma care.
Carl Butler
Carl Butler is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW). He holds a Master of Social Work (MSW) in Clinical/Medical Social Work from the University of South Florida. For over 20 years, I’ve been helping people like you by making them feel heard, understood, and supported. I provide a safe, judgment-free space for individuals and couples to explore their stories, unpack what’s holding them back, and build tools for lasting change. I employ a combination of Modalities, including Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Solution-Focused Therapy, and Narrative Therapy, to help you uncover patterns, develop practical strategies, and reframe the stories that shape your life. Whether you’re navigating stress, trauma, relationship challenges, or performance pressure, my goal is to help you gain clarity, strengthen resilience, and find balance. Types of Treatment: Individuals, Couples, and Family via Telehealth Counseling